On Wednesday night as I was plopping sausages onto a man's plate, he said, "What did you do? Marry a job?"
Most of the time I enjoy the job of my husband (youth director) and helping him with it. But I found it interesting that the man said something about it as I've been thinking about that very thing lately. When you get married, you do have to clearly communicate the word "no" and not feel guilty about it once in a while. At the same time, if you make a commitment, you have to follow through and do what you promised. I am learning how to do both.
We are still eating those sausages, and we probably will be eating them out of the freezer for a while.